Full time Nerd | Some highlights of my life
When you finally see all your scars as beauty marks ✨ 📸 @tafandlovu
Your favourite Software Engineer is now official🎓🎊 📸: @msamkhize
Just trying to be the woman I always wanted to look up to as a young girl 📸: @tafandlovu
JHB looks good on me 📸: @tondy_ms_sultry
Reflecting on how the curveballs that 2018 threw at me were a beautiful unfolding of growth... But I'm ready to catch n flip em MF's in 2019 #NoFumblingTheBag #GottaFlipItAndTumbleIt
My face to the negative voice inside my head that tried to tell me that I couldn't survive juggling studying and having a job this year. Well TUH! I made it👅
I just made this my WhatsApp profile picture. Waiting for my mom to ask me where the rest of my pants are in five, four, three, tw- ahh there we go...
2019 is almost here, Big Ups to everyone for surviving the year💪🏽 The size of the blessing that is coming will match the magnitude of the battles you overcame
A couple of weeks ago, I was diagnosed with depression. I had felt for a while that my demeanour had changed, and so had my outlook on life, but I thought I was just going through a "phase". And as much as you hear about a lot about mental health awareness, I never thought depression was something that would (and was ) happening to me. After months of negative thinking, supplemented with many forms of self-medicating, I found myself in a very dark place, and my attempt to get rid of my anxiety problems is what lead to my diagnosis. When I was eventually referred to a psychiatrist, and was told to get on anti depressants, my 1st thought was "no, I refuse to get hooked onto pills" (only irony is, this is after months of using alcohol and other things to try solve whatever was going on inside of me ) My diagnosis was the best thing that could have ever happened to me, because for the 1st time in 13months, words like "hope", "optimism", and all things positive started to have meaning again in my life. If you're close to someone you feel may need help, or if you feel stuck in a bad place, please reach out for help. Reaching out for help is not a form of being "too weak" to deal with your own problems. The mind is a very powerful force in your life, and as much as you can get a crutch for a broken leg, mental health is just as important. #mentalhealthawareness
Being happy. Being me 📸 @daniel_akokpari
Happy Birthday to my favourite cousin! (Lol yes I have favourites, sorry to everyone else ) You're only a few months older than me, but you took on such a motherly role as soon as I arrived to Cape Town, because that's just the kind of person you are. You care about everyone around you, and are such a ride or die to people close to your heart. You are a GEM! I love you and miss you so much❤ Pray that God oversees this next chapter of your life, with more of His love, grace and blessings🎉
10:17am shenanigans at the office. Because being a popeye seems to be our #1 profession lately🙃
... Because these are the years we're going to miss when we're old 🎥: @obakeng_fitobi Also the biggest hypeman ever😂😄❤
Miss 20Something 📸 @tejmushede
Breathe again... 📸 cred: @_zanele_kubheka_ 🍑 cred: 🍕🍝🍷🍩🍾🍔🍟🍗
Us talking about how stressful being a popeye with a job is
Me walking away from your life for not treating me like the goddess I am👸🏽 #throwback
No nigga wanna be my ex
We be acting boujee, don't believe the hype🍾😄
The calm before the storm💋 Girls Night Out 📷 @_zanele_kubheka_
Clatchet (Classy Ratchet ) Kinda Weekend 📷 @tlotli_m
Ting-tings ❤ @phumiiiiee
How to get a bikini body . Step 1: buy a bikini Step 2: accept all the happy-weight you gained, wear it, and go to the beach P.S. love how this bikini colour makes my melanin pop
. New Chapter. New Adventures. New Uncertainties. New Fears. New Victories. New Memories Unfolding.
When the weekend is finally here, and so is Vac 💃🏽💃🏽
When spring is here and I know I don't have my summer body ready, but... 🙄🍕🍹 P.S. I'll never get abs at this rate 👀 Another side note: I clearly have no shame posting this photo, so 🤗
Outgrow self denial. Be self reflecting. Observant. Better. Be the queen you so desperately want to grasp and claim to be👑 Women's month may be over, but wishing all the ladies a fruitful week🌸
Sometimes it's better to take the stairs than the elevator. Remember all the days you cried at night for not getting your big break. All those experiences made you the better person that you are today. God was preparing you for a greater task ahead. All those experiences were lessons. Sometimes when you go through the elevator, your mind is not ready when you reach the top. But then you take the stairs, you stop when you're tired. You take a breather, but you keep pushing. By the time you get to the door, you are ready for the level you have reached. 🌸
Most times I have to remind myself to lighten up a bit, live a little. Perfection is so overrated anyway
"The best project you'll ever work on is yourself" To the first of many 🍾 @matlapeng #HappyWomensMonth
Flawed, but totally in love with the woman I am yet to become❤ #ThrowbackOnATuesday #HappyWomensMonth
She always makes me feel like I got left out off bad and boujee 😂 Happy Birthday BessFran 🎉 no long deep caption this time around, but I love you till death ❤
Don't get impatient when it takes too long.
Look who's in town 😄 FamBam❤
Time. & Growth.
"Don't downgrade your dreams to match your reality. Upgrade your belief to match your vision" #Throw🔙 Lowkey need 20 year old me to give 21 year old me a pep talk right about now. Shit happens, but beauty is life goes on. Never let any disappointment, roadblocks, or failure deter you from achieving what you had originally planned.
Warmer days. Tanner skin. Thicker thighs #BringBackSummer 😭
Where I left my happiness (5/5 ): Till next time 💙
Where I left my happiness (4/5 ): A picture was never really complete without someone sticking their tongue out in the background
Where I left my happiness (3/5 ): One word - Wine.
Where I left my happiness (2/5 ): When we all try to take a FamBam picture, but John is really just there for the food
Where I left my happiness (1/5 ): Canoeing, proudly powered by "Happy Juice"
God's timing is perfect. In all things ✨💫
Sunrise views. #Day2 #Roadtrip
When #familysunday turns into a whole launch😂 thanks guys, hope you [make it home] safely ✌😅 #muchlove ❤